Did you ever wonder why some guys gets to have good looking girlfriends even if they're not. Chances are, it's the attitude that he has. Women are attracted to men who are naturally alpha male.
Attraction is not controllable. It's an animal instinct. This goes way back in the cavemen days. Women needed strong males to survive. After a thousands of years, this didn't change. Women still likes the man who is stable and can take care of his woman.
You want to be the ideal guy that attracts women. Most men fail at this. Why? Because they don't have any idea what attracts women to men. You have to be exceptional in your own style. Stand out from the crowd. You should know how to start a conversation with a woman.
This is one of the skill you should learn. Soon she'll be interested in you as a guy she wants to date. You should also know how to use your body language correctly when you're talking to her. You can also make a good impression with only your body language. You can learn more about this from The Tao of Badass book, reviewed here.
You should show that talking to women is the most natural thing for you. If you feel anxious and nervous around her. She'll notice that and affect her. You'll ruin the conversation and she'll head to the nearest exit when she gets the chance.
It's not really hard if you can show that you're confident in talking to her and teasing her. Bring your funny side and make her smile. It's always a plus if you can make women laugh with your jokes. Master the art of flirting. Use humor every time you talk to a woman.
When she is not laughing you need to take this as a sign. You need to lighten up and have some fun. Women are attracted to the alpha male because he makes them feel comfortable. You can do this by noticing something about her and then teasing her a bit. Lead the conversation to where you want to. Get her number or get a date.